Here are two resources that target both the issues facing your congregation and how you can go about praying for the work of the Holy Spirit in them. The first is a blog post:
The Trap of Young Adulthood – For the Church. In this article Cole Deike compares young Christians to raccoons in traps- so unwilling to let go of the shiny bait that it consumes their lives.
The second is a very brief podcast (15 mins) that walks through how to pray for those in your church who may be acting more like raccoons than sheep.
How to Pray for the Flock– Practical Shepherding